Personal Relationships

Avoiding Vulnerability…You Shouldn’t Be

Avoiding Vulnerability…You Shouldn’t Be
February 4, 2013 No Comments »

Our shame chat continues on this lovely Monday and what I want us to explore are what Brene Brown calls “Vulnerability Shields.” She says they’re what we put up when we’re trying to avoid vulnerability.  Remember a few weeks ago ... Read More »

5 Reasons You Must Mix Business with Pleasure

5 Reasons You Must Mix Business with Pleasure
January 27, 2013 No Comments »

We’ve all watched that scene in the movies. A blonde bombshell turns to a man at a bar, asks for a light and with a Marilyn-esque voice says something like, “Tell me, sir, are you in town for business or ... Read More »

Confronting Feelings of Shame: Part 2

Confronting Feelings of Shame: Part 2
January 21, 2013 No Comments »

The next part of this series looks at how shame and vulnerability show up differently for men and women. Much of this information again comes from Brene Brown and her book, “Daring Greatly” as well as my clinical experience and ... Read More »

A True Analytical View of Online Dating

A True Analytical View of Online Dating
January 19, 2013 No Comments »

Today, I’m a happily married woman, but just a few years ago, I was what my friends and I lovingly referred to as a “professional dater.” I tried Match, I tried eHarmony, I even tried JDate, and I’m not even ... Read More »

Single Career Girl: Should You Make the First Move?

Single Career Girl: Should You Make the First Move?
January 5, 2013 1 Comment »

There’s a guy you really like, and you think he likes you — he’s always talking to you, asking what you’re up to, maybe even emailing or texting you. But he’s not making a move. He’s not asking you out. ... Read More »

Top 4 Ways to Boost Your Relationship in the New Year.

Top 4 Ways to Boost Your Relationship in the New Year.
January 2, 2013 No Comments »

The New Year signifies lots of “New You” opportunities and those new healthy changes you’re choosing probably impact your relationship. Here are some ways to incorporate positive changes into your relationship in 2013 — these should align with the awesome ... Read More »

Single Career Girl: 12 Dating Lessons of 2012

Single Career Girl: 12 Dating Lessons of 2012
December 29, 2012 No Comments »

In 2012, I ended a year-long relationship and voluntarily returned to the single life. I started dating again by pushing myself out of the house — going to singles parties, speed dating events, and 8 at 8 dinners. I’ve also ... Read More »

Finish Your Book! What Does Your 2012 Look Like?

Finish Your Book! What Does Your 2012 Look Like?
December 26, 2012 No Comments »

In “Organized Chaos,” I told you about the amazing organizational benefits of a “Junk Drawer” notebook — that notebook you can carry with you everywhere to record important notes and all your brilliant thoughts that just can’t be planned or ... Read More »

The 7 Most Influential People

The 7 Most Influential People
December 26, 2012 No Comments »

In the hustle in bustle of the holiday season, I very rarely get around to cards. I don’t know about you, but I’m always amazed at the organization of people who send out adorable holiday cards with photos by the ... Read More »

Talking About Your Career ‘Round the Holiday Table

Talking About Your Career ‘Round the Holiday Table
December 24, 2012 No Comments »

If you’re spending any time with your family these next few days of holidays, you’ll no doubt be subjected to a question like this: “So, Susie, how are things going with your job?” Then, some strange uncle will say something ... Read More »